If the relationship with your guy started with a drunken hookup, moved on to a casual (but intense) $exual connection, had a short pause in the land of ‘I love you,” and is now feeling distant and uncoupled, maybe your ‘relationship’ was never what you thought. Feelings of infatuation are strong and can make us think, “Wow. This is real love!” But without some underpinning of compatibility, people just tend to lose interest and drift apart.
Sometimes, even, a man wakes up to find that loving feeling is gone (gone, gone, gone). He’s no longer in love. Here’s 8 of the most common reasons why.
1. Business in the front. Business in the back.
If you’re in a relationship and you’re sharing any of the responsibilities of life (i.e. money, children, a home), it’s easy for your couple’s interaction to be reduced to a series of business conversations. You are business partners, there’s no changing that, but the key is being mindful of when you talk business and when you just relax and enjoy each other. It’s hard to be passionately in love with a person who is always talking about big, serious, important things. Make time for fun and playful conversation to create balance in the relationship.