We’ve all experienced it. When you really like someone, it’s hard to hold yourself back from expressing your feelings to them.
When you’re smitten by someone, chances are, you’d be really enthusiastic about saying ‘I love you’ and making sure that person belongs to you. But sometimes it’s too soon, that other person’s feelings might not have developed like yours and you might scare them away.
Here are actual reasons why it’s not advisable to say ‘I love you’ too soon:
1. You will have killed the guessing game.
The excitement of playing hard to get with each other is what makes falling in love so much fun. If you say ‘I love you’ too soon, the excitement of wondering what’s on each other’s minds would end overnight. It’s not a bad thing to pronounce your feelings, but a longer dating process before declaring love almost always gives a better chance for a longer relationship because both of you waited and made sure your feelings were real before deciding to date.