1. He asks for your advice
Your husband trusts you and recognizes you’re his best resource in resolving issues. You’re his number one go-to person. And as he makes decisions, he seeks your counsel. It’s not just about listening to your advice, but he uses it because he values your input.
2. He brags about you to his friends
Every woman wants to feel special like she’s the only girl in the world. A great husband will make you feel that way, not just to you but to his and your friends.
3. He keeps working to win your heart
He doesn’t assume he’s “got the girl” just because you’re married. He makes a deliberate effort to do the things both of you did while you were still dating like taking you out on dates, complimenting you, and doing things that make you go weak in the knees. The very best husbands know that they have to keep romancing their lady day after day.
4. He’s handy
The norm is women are supposed to do all the chores and a man is supposed to the fixing. If your man is fond of fixing things around the house. Count yourself lucky.
5. He shows affection publicly
In our side of the world, PDA (public display of affection) is a no go area. There’s also this notion that men are supposed to be aggressive towards their wife. But a real husband would want to show the world how much he’s fond of you.
6. He’s considerate
Our men have been known to be very inconsiderate, they mostly enslave their wives. If you husband is considerate of your time, assist in house chores and helps when needed, you are a lucky woman.
7. You have a lot in common
You both find the same things funny, enjoy the same things and have so much in common.
8. He’s not abusive
Abuse in marriage is nothing new in our side of the world, if your husband knows how to resolve issues amicably, you are in good hands.
9. He’s honest
It’s very hard to find an honest man these days, if he’s honest and comes clean about everything, count yourself a lucky woman.
10. He makes you want to be a better person
It’s not that he’s perfect, but his efforts to be a better person inspire you. Simply seeing how great he is makes you want to be the best version of yourself.
11. He helps with the kids
In most homes, women are left with the chores, kids upkeep etc.. if your man helps with the kids and their upkeep, he’s the best.